LDR – Sweet LDR Surprises Continued…

It’s been requested that I do a Part 2 of Sweet LDR Surprises… so here it is! A gajillion (or… you know, 45) more things you can do/send to your far-away beau to remind them of your undying love (and in the case of treats, to fatten them up for winter). 🙂


1. Buy a plain photo frame and jazz it up with love (and stickers/decals/gems etc,.). I made this one for my man that says “3000 Miles Won’t Stop Me Loving You.” But it did almost stop me loving stickers as I had to re-glue them down 3 times with 3 different types of glue. I’ve done similar frames before with no trouble but this particular frame gave me a very hard time. In the end it was a 2-step crazy glue that did the trick. He loved it so it was worth it!

2. phone messages

2. When they are not paying attention (for example while they are getting their hair cut) program sweet reminders into their phone. Of course you will have to be with them to do this, but it will remind them of you when the two of you are apart again. I programmed about two thousand into my man’s phone :).

3. take what u need

3. Send this DIY “Take What You Need” flyer with your next love letter to your love nugget. It’s a nice little pick me up, especially if your baby’s having a tough week.

4. mail order

4. Send your darling a mail order cake/cupcake/brownie! A quick google search of mail order cakes in the area you need it sent should do the trick. How amazing would it be for delicious treats to show up on your doorstep?!

5. why i love you

5. I picked up this Why I Love You journal from Coles (the bookstore) as part of my baby’s anniversary present. It took WAY longer than I thought it would to fill out but my man really appreciated all the effort. I did find that sometimes it asks the same questions over so I just cut out photos of us and cute Facebook chats and stuck them over those. Makes a sweet keepsake that you can look back on in years to come. $10.99


6. dedicate a song

6. I really, really wanna do this at some point. If your duckling usually listens to a station at a certain time, call up the station and have them dedicate a song to them. Some stations also do online requests which makes it easier for those living in another country!

7. astronaut ice cream

7. This was one of my more brilliant ideas. My baby one day said he’d like some ice cream. I said “I would send you some but it would melt.” And then I realized I could mail him astronaut ice cream! You can buy it off of ebay. He thought it was pretty neat.

9. shirt

8. Buy a long distance themed shirt or mail one to your other half. I really like this ONE DAY CLOSER tank top :). $27.00


10. videogame survival

9. Is there a videogame coming out that your other half is dying to have? Why not mail them a copy along with a survival kit of their favourite snacks? They will probably love you forever and ever for it. And ever. And ever. And… okay.

10. monogrammed towel

10. Get something monogrammed for your sweetie. It could be sweet or it could be funny like this cheeky “get naked” towel. I think a towel or bathrobe with monogrammed initials would be a cute surprise for when they come to visit :).

11. pillowpet

11. This is both adorable AND practical! Pillow pets double as an airplane pillow and a cute furry creature to cuddle, for when your own cute furry creature can’t be there. $19.99


12. travel themed undies 12. undies 12. undies2 12. glow


12. Send (or surprise) your lover-lover with a pair of nifty knickers. I love these travel, customized, military and glow-in-the-dark themed ones! They are also small and lightweight for mailing :).  American Eagle usually has some neat glow-in-the-dark varieties.

Air Force Undies: (12.97) http://www.customizedgirl.com/designs/category/Military/Air+Force/Air+Force+Girlfriend&toppage=top48?gclid=COLVj7HX4rgCFUKe4AodFDMATA

Reserved For Undies: (16.00) https://www.etsy.com/listing/168649788/custom-military-themed-underwear-panty

13. giant cookie

13. Send your cupcake a GIANT cookie! Ah shoot, now I’m hungry.


14. photo lined envelope

14. Send your next love letter in an envelope lined with a photo of the two of you. I think this is just adorable :).

tutorial: http://thediybride2010.blogspot.ca/2010/01/envelope-liners-check.html

15. bond bracelet

15. The “bond” bracelet is not a bracelet designed by James Bond, but a bracelet that helps separated lovers bond. When one person touches theirs, its pair lights up and transfers the sensation of the touch. Sparkly AND sciencey, whoohoo! I believe it is still in works but hopefully they can take my money soon. *throws money*


16. custom phone case

16. Get a custom phone case with a photo of you two lovebirds on it. Warning: this may melt the heart of your other half. I would do it, only I’m still using stone tablets (kidding, but I do have like an 8 year old flip phone that everyone makes fun of me for… even random strangers on buses).


17. record video calls

17. Download the Free Video Call Recorder for Skype and create videos of you and your love bunny (just not when you are acting like bunnies!). Then you can watch them over and over as you cry yourself to sleep. Wait, what? Who does that? Or you can edit them into a cute video and send it to your bunny-munchkin-bear-cupcake-pumpkin-face (or whatever).

18. Make your sweetie a video of the two of you, and send! This is one I did of our first two trips (mainly our England trip) and I did another one for our second two trips (mainly Canada). You could also make it with a collage of pictures, or design it to look like a trailer for a movie… get creative! VideoPad Video Editor is my favourite free editing program followed by Youtube Movie Maker. They are the most user-friendly I find.

18. pillow case love letter

19. DIY a pillow case love letter! This way your beau will be reminded of you each night as they hit their pillow and each morning when they wake up.

20. owl post

20. If your muggle is a Harry Potter fan, wrapping their next small package in this free, printable owl post paper just might make them as happy as a Hippogryph with a ferret, or a wizard with a Firebolt, or a witch with a signed copy of Magical Me, or… you get the talking picture.



21. I’ve always thought it would be so romantic to be sent on a scavenger hunt around town, so naturally I thought about how I could send my better half on one. Since we live 3,000 miles away I created this long distance scavenger hunt. I hid clues in letters and gifts I’d send him and in online places then wrapped up some clues and a locked box in an “Open When You’re Bored” envelope. I left little goodies along the way and the last clue told him where to find the key to unlock the mysterious box. For details on how exactly I pulled this off check out the post below:

LDR Scavenger Hunt!

22. morphthing

22. Feeling bored? Wondering what yours and your boyfriends faces would look like mashed together? Well then you’re in luck! Go to Morph Thing.com, upload two photos and voila! You’re instantly ugly! This could be a worthwhile waste of ten seconds of your life.

23. key to heart

23. Send your love a key “to my heart.” Well, isn’t that a-gosh-darn-dorable.


24. Send some childhood photos with your next letter! Remember the days when we used to print these things out? Yeah, those! Disclaimer:  yes, the horseback-riding bunny-squeezer is me as a youngin.

25. lovegram

25. Perhaps don’t send this with the childhood photos (that might get confusing and weird), but at some other point, send your man a PantyGram! You could DIY it or you can go to the website below and they will send a pair of lacy undergarments to your man along with a login to their website where you’ll have left a sizzling note. Something that goes on your lady bits AND mystery? Your stud will love it :).


27. birch bark


26. Carve yours and your lovers initials into a scrap of birch bark and frame to make a lovely keepsake that will remind them of you whenever they see it. Such a creative take on the old photo and frame.


28. order soup

27. When your sweetie is feeling under the weather, call or online-order some soup to be delivered to their door. I spent half a day trying to do this for my man and as it turned out the place had no driver that day. In fact they kept telling me: “you pick up! You pick up!” I had to explain I couldn’t pick it up as I was in another country. It’s the thought that counts right people? :p

29. spa certificate

28. If your honey is having a rough week or as a “just because” treat send your lover to the spa for some relaxation, on you. You can book most spa’s online and they can email the certificate to you or straight to your loved one’s email.

30. heart glow

29. If you’re looking for a little something to throw in an envelope with your love letter you could include a glow stick with the sweet message “You make my heart glow!” Because things that glow are just better than things that don’t glow.

31. edible arrangement

30. Flowers are always a sweet idea but change things up by sending an edible bouquet! It’s almost too pretty to eat. Almost. *nom nom nom* A quick google search of “edible arrangements” or “edible bouquet” should hook you up with one of these in your area.

32. roly poly

31. The Roly Poly is another cool long distance technological advancement in the works. It is comprised of 2 egg-shaped pairs. When one lover moves theirs the other one mimics the movement. That way it can feel like there is a ghost in your house and when you go to bed (alone of course) you can lie awake being creeped out. Seriously though, it’s kinda neat. Just, maybe don’t watch the Poltergeist before bed.


33. latitude pillows

32. DIY these sweet longitude/latitude pillows and send one to your lovebugger. And hopefully one day they will be at either end of the same couch :).

tutorial: http://craftingrebellion.blogspot.ca/2012/04/latitude-longitude-pillow.html

34. orbit cam

33. There have been so many days when I wished I had a webcam that follows you around the room. Voila! There is such a thing! The Logitech QuickCam Orbit AF follows your movement as you Skype. Brand new one of these babies will cost you your baby (or about 400$ )but you can find used ones *cough amazon cough* for under $100.

35. add ice cream

34. Send your sweetie this sweet “just add ice cream!” kit. It’s got all the fixins to make their next ice cream extra special (except for, of course, the ice cream part).

36. return address stamp

35. These custom return address stamps will add a touch of flair to your future love letters. However at $60 I’d make sure I wasn’t moving anytime soon!


37. custom calendar

36. Make a free customized printable calendar online; print one for you and one for your butterfly-pumpernickel-loaf-monkey-butt so that the two of you can cross off the days together. Me and my S.O. did this on the last month before our last visit :). *the edit bits don’t show up on the printout. There are a few sites you can use: I used Print With My Pic


38. love letter


37. I love this idea to use Popsicle sticks for your next love letter! Paste a photo on the front, marker a sweet message on the back; cut apart and voila! Instant puzzle 🙂


39. state to state mug

38. Love this custom state-to-state quote mug. You can also DIY these (check out the original post on Sweet LDR Surprises).


40. bookmark

39. Use a photostrip of you (or you and your loved one!) and turn it into an awesome bookmark! Add cardstock to the back, laminate and add a string with a cute bead or charm on the end :).


42. flags

40. Exchange flags! My man and I sent each-other our countries’ flags and have them hanging in our rooms. Love seeing the union jack there whenever I go into my room and seeing the Canada flag on his end when we Skype :).

44. drawing

41. Have an artist draw a sketch of you and your loved one; or DIY it if you’re artsy! Or have a photo of the two of you blown up and printed on canvas at a local print shop.

45. postmark 43. 2 maps heart

48. etsy jewellery 49. bracelet

42. There are SO many LDR-inspired jewelry pieces and custom pieces on etsy. These are just a few. I love the idea of a vintagey postmark to commemorate an important milestone, and the other items are sweet too.

Postmark necklace ($32): postmark necklace on etsy

Double map heart necklace ($49): Double Map on etsy

Plane and World matching necklaces ($42): Plane & World necklaces

Latitude/Longitude bracelet: L/L bracelet on etsy

46. countdown clock

43. Send your baby a countdown clock so that you can see just how slowly the time passes while you are apart! Or just how far you’ve come each day. Whether you look at the glass half full or half empty, the point is there is always room for more wine. I stole that from an Ecard. $12.95


47. paper decoration

44. Follow the tutorial below to make this lightweight paper heart decoration with a love note inside for your S.O. 🙂

tutorial: http://sausagejar.blogspot.ca/2012/01/diy-paper-heart-decoration.html

picjoshsentatsoccer picshure

45. This is one of my favourite things that we do to stay close and it’s so simple. Every now and then we’ll send a picture to the other; sometimes they are silly, sometimes they are sweet,  sometimes it’s of the moon or a good dinner or something we think the other would like, but it just makes me feel connected; like I’m a part of his day. I get a kick out of when him and his friends pose for a photo and send it to me… it’s nice to know that even though I can’t be there and even though they don’t know me that well they make an effort to include me. It’s the little thoughtful things that make a relationship so magical and I’m so blessed to have a man that shows me everyday how much I am appreciated and loved. And I love and appreciate that handsome bugger right back :).

I hope these suggestions have been useful! Best wishes to all you brave long distance lovers, and stay tuned for my upcoming dramedy novel “The LDR Diaries.”

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9 thoughts on “LDR – Sweet LDR Surprises Continued…

  1. Wow you have great ideas, you really helped me a lot with these, not only with the ideas but also with the feeling that there are other couples who believe in love and that it is all worth it as well although a long distance relationship is hard. I met my love in canada by the way 😉

    1. Thank you very much! When I first met my man I thought we were the only two people on the planet crazy enough to attempt an international relationship but I was surprised to find out just how many other people are in LDR’s. It’s really comforting :).

      In Canada! Good country, that Canada haha Too cold for my liking in the winter though! Is he a Cannuck then? 🙂

      1. Yeah that’s true but when people keep asking you how it is and how it can work and that they could not imagine it, of course I sometimes think it could be easier to have someone here but I never had any doubts, well we have to say that we are living in a time where the internet and all that stuff makes it a lot easier 🙂

        Oh ja Canada is a good country, I was really amazed, we met last year on a camp near ottawa, he is from Mexico and i’m from Austria so quite a funny coincidence.

      2. Wow what a random place to meet each-other! Haha. My man and I met online. My aunt thought he was gonna kidnap me or something, she was really nervous about us meeting but he won my parents over via Skype so they weren’t worried :p

        It’s always interesting to see how people from such far away places have ended up together!

  2. Thank you for your blog, I loved it !
    One idea that I found on another website is some happy pill messages, I thought you might like, if you don’t know it already 🙂

  3. You’re incredibly insane and inlove! I’m learning a lot from you! Thank youuu! and to more years w/ you and your guy

    1. Thanks very much 🙂 That’s so sweet of you to say you are learning from me. I’m still always learning myself and having a wonderful time doing it. Wishing you much happiness!

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